Uh, no one is coming! Duh.

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On the rainy morning of April 13, I awoke early with a mission to work on my featured photograph. It was likely the final rain of the season, and I wanted to capitalize on the gloomy day to process a moody image. As I delved into my work, a sudden realization dawned on me: “No one is coming.”

Although I was not sure what this realization meant with respect to my own life, the catalyst for it was my own photograph. The thought motivated me to reflect on my own expectations and how it relates to the culture I was brought up in.

This theme of waiting for “someone to come” resonates widely in the Judeo-Christian tradition. Here, the anticipation of a savior is deeply ingrained. The narrative speaks of awaiting redemption, envisioning a messiah or divine figure to bring salvation. This sentiment is particularly strong in Christianity, where the Second Coming of Christ is awaited, embodying hope for a future where justice prevails and those who deserve it will be saved.

This notion of salvation isn’t confined to religious contexts alone. In societal imagery, there are analogues of this expectation; for instance, I recently encountered a painting portraying Donald Trump astride a white horse, wielding a spade. This fusion of political and religious imagery underscores a pervasive cultural hope for deliverance through authority figures, even as evidence suggests otherwise.

However, what transpires when we confront the truth that “no one is coming”? Initially, it appears contradictory to the tradition Christians grow up in. Yet, delving deeper unveils a nuanced understanding.

Realizing “no one is coming” liberates us, redirecting focus from external saviors to internal transformation. It prompts responsibility and urges us to enact change rather than waiting for miracles.

This realization mirrors my personal journey. No one will alleviate my challenges or make decisions for me. No one will help me get up in the morning, sell my pictures, finish my projects and plan my retirement. I must reclaim agency in navigating widowhood, loneliness, aging, and uncertainty. It’s a reminder to reclaim some type of autonomy and to shape my own destiny.

The FEATURED IMAGE

The FEATURED IMAGE (f 6.3, 1/800s, ISO 200 @70mm), repeated below for convenience, was taken near Winters, CA, on March 3, 2024, during a storm. It was taken through the window of a car, which resulted in considerable visible dirt in the sky. I cleaned it as I could, and used Photoshop’s Gaussian Burr to soften the sky. I often use this filter as a means to direct the viewers eye in my images, although seldom to the extent that I have used in this photograph.

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13 responses to “Uh, no one is coming! Duh.”

  1. Steve Schwartzman Avatar

    Sometime a photographer acts as a teacher and shows a photograph twice, first in its right-out-of-the-camera state, and then after thorough editing. As you’re leaning toward the artistic here rather than the teacherly, it’s understandable you’d want beholders to see only the final version.
    The light behind the clouds may suggest that someone or something is waiting to emerge, yet the only thing that emerged in your mind was the counter-realization that no one is coming. As you noted, that’s an incentive to turn to your own agency, which has much more yet to provide.

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    1. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

      I am not convinced that there is much interest in the learning part. It’s hard to know what type of entertainment is expected so I try to vary. When I post before and after images or attempts at teaching something I don’t seem to get much of a response. Those posts require a lot of work. I have a couple coming, actually, but it’s debatable whether people even read them, lest learn something from them.

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  2. howg2211 Avatar
    howg2211

    It’s a beautiful image. No one is coming relates to so many things in life (and likely death as well, if you ask me).

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    1. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

      Thank you. Yes no one is coming to save us from death.

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      1. howg2211 Avatar
        howg2211

        Or do anything with us afterwards, but that’s just my belief.

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      2. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

        It’s my hope too.

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  3. dgkaye Avatar

    Hi Allesandra. Very profound post. I’m pretty sure we’re on that same journey. The realization hits us and we realize, we are alone, and we have to save ourselves. Because it sure doesn’t feel like anyone is coming. 🙂 I love your photo, I see people in the clouds. 🙂

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    1. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

      Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Glad you like the photo.

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      1. dgkaye Avatar

        My pleasure.:)

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  4. shoreacres Avatar

    After thinking about it for a while, I realized that one of my most challenging “no one is coming” periods occurred after I left salaried employment to begin my own business. The sudden loss of external structures was disorienting, and the need for constant decision-making became wearing. Eventually, I internalized a bit of helpful wisdom: when a decision is needed, make it, and move on. Don’t keep re-deciding, just keep an eye on the result. If the result was good: terrific. If it wasn’t, figure out what went wrong and keep it in mind for the next time.

    In a different context, I watched my mother deal with the ‘no one is coming’ dynamic after my dad died. She had led a charmed and protected life, but that meant she also was quite dependent. She’d never put gas in a car, purchased a newspaper from a vending machine, driven after dark or on a highway. It took a while, but in time she began to socialize on her own, drove to other towns to shop, and finally began traveling with me from time to time. Eventually, she learned the lesson I learned decades earlier after a divorce; there can be a real sense of exhilaration in being in charge of our own lives.

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    1. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

      My mother was also very spoiled by my dad, he died after 50 years of marriage. It’s tough, but she’s doing well considering, after seven years. It must feel like “no one is coming” right now in Southern Brazil with the extensive floods that wiped the state. And the tornados in the South West of the USA. I am also divorced from my first marriage, it was a very isolating experience (my ex manipulated all our friends onto his side). It’s certainly hard to move on after making a decision, I tend to ruminate over the “what ifs”.

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  5. tierneycreates: a fusion of textiles and smiles Avatar

    Amazing image and deep musings! Your statement: “No one will alleviate my challenges or make decisions for me” really hit home for me!

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    1. Alessandra Chaves Avatar

      Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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